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Gender Reveal

Jul 1, 2019

In this week’s episode, Molly speaks with author and illustrator Maia Kobabe  (e/em/eir), creator of the memoir Gender Queer. (Buy eir book!)Topics include:

  • Spivak pronouns
  • Low inventory at the orgasm store
  • “Deserving” trans-related surgeries
  • Coming out to your first Girl Scout troop
  • Educating TERF-adjacent relatives
  • Also: Molly does unlicensed therapy

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Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
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