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Gender Reveal

Dec 27, 2021

Tuck catches up with BFF of the show Mckenzee Griffler (she/her) before tackling another stack of advice questions. Topics include:

  • How do I know if my loved ones are really seeing me?
  • Should I risk parental support to explore my gender?
  • Can my cis girlfriend use all pronouns?
  • How can demisexuals explore their queerness?
  • Plus: When becoming a girl is like cutting out egg (lol) in bread products.

This Week in Gender: Here’s the New York Magazine phallo essay. Don’t read the comments :)

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Associate Producer: Ozzy Llinas Goodman
Logo: Ira M. Leigh
Music: Breakmaster Cylinder
Sponsors: Enby (promo code: GenderReveal) and Rev Nat’s (promo code: SNACKS)