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Gender Reveal

Mar 24, 2020

In this extra-nice episode, Tuck answers listener questions with their roommates Taegan Wolfe (they) and Tehya (they). Topics include:

  • Navigating a gender transition in a previously “straight” relationship
  • Androsexual, gynesexual, sapiosexual… are they problematic?
  • What should I do if I’m triggered by my partner’s gender expression?
  • How can I feel sexy in a non-normative body?
  • Also: how and why did you choose to be gay?

This Week in Gender: Marvel announces its first nonbinary superhero… Snowflake (via Pink News)

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