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Gender Reveal

Apr 1, 2020

Tuck speaks with trans, queer, and intersex activist Mari Wrobi (they/them). Topics include:

  • Being the only trans person at your middle school.
  • Why “people with vaginas” might not be as inclusive as you think.
  • What does a “typical intersex puberty” look like?
  • What does transitioning look like for intersex folks?
  • Also: OK, but what does femme mean?

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Music: Breakmaster Cylinder

Additional Music: “Come As You Are” by Blue Dot Sessions

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