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Gender Reveal

Jun 7, 2021

Tuck catches up with nonbinary linguist Kirby Conrod (they/them). Topics include: 

  • Are pronoun-go-arounds for cis people?
  • Gender as a local social relationship 
  • Neurodivergent life hacks 
  • Writing a dissertation about they/them pronouns
  • Plus: wizard gender! 

This Week in Gender: NYC Pride has banned GOAL from marching in the parade for the next four years.

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